My employer lowered his eyes
as he looked at the paperwork he brought upstairs for me. "We had two complaints from customers
in the last few days about your cross.
You'll have to take it down."
I (used to) have a small white plastic cross on the bulletin board
behind my main work area. I found it on
the floor of my department three years ago and just stuck it into the bulletin
board along with the assorted miscellany of product info, phone numbers,
customer special orders and company policy.
I saw it every work day but, as it was very much part of the landscape,
sometimes didn't notice it. When I
explained the circumstances to my employer he was greatly relieved "You
mean you found it?" Yes.
Throughout the remainder of the day as my
employer flies (I do mean 'fly'!) through my department we had an interesting
discussion on tolerance. My employer's
family-run business has a been a fixture of the downtown for 86 years. This means he has a lot of stories that he's
willing to share. My employer believes
that society is becoming more tolerant of differing beliefs. I'm not so sure sometimes. I told my employer that at 43 I feel like
I've seen so much that very few things surprise me anymore. The reaction to the cross on my bulletin
board struck me a couple of very different ways. I don't feel angry but irritated and I also grieve the loss of an opportunity.
I wear a cross or saint's medal to work
everyday, have the words dei gratia (latin for 'by the grace of God')
inked prominently on my lower right forearm and wear Jesus charms on my work
watches. In my work environment, when
you look at me you are looking at religious symbolism somewhere. I don't shout my heart's beliefs or preach
them: I breathe them. My customers
complaint represents a lost opportunity to simply chat.
When I had my dei gratia tattoo done three
years ago the studio walls of the
tattoo artist were decorated with anti-religious cartoons and a mask of a
demon. My tattoo artist was a wonderful
man who loved his father, had an interesting journey in careers and had some
very legitimate issues with mainstream Christianity. He did most of the talking.
I listened. I agreed with most
of his points as his views paralleled some of my own experiences and
observations. We chatted. Mutual respect. (and he did a great job on my tattoo!) This is the kind of interaction I would have liked to have with
the customer who complained about the cross.
Societal progress to me
means there is room for everyone of every imaginable opinion and belief
system. This is the beauty of
multiculturalism (besides the great restaurants!): there is room for
everyone. Yes, you don't have to agree
with everything someone is saying but a society that welcomes all works best
with mutual respect. Tolerance is not
about 'yeah I put up with you...' in a begrudging manner with a nasty
undertone. And maybe tolerance is not
even the best word for this! Maybe I am
simply talking about human respect.
In my 43 years I have seen
the very best and the very worst in humanity.
But I carry great hope for us. I believe that we are all 'big enough' in
mind, heart and spirit to interact and engage with each other and to reach
beyond ourselves to the person next to us wherever we are: at work, school, in
the shops, buses, streets, coffee shops, our online communities, our
neighbourhoods, our walking trails, our facebook/twitter/linkedin contacts, our
community involvements, etc wherever we may find ourselves. My reading of Christian scriptures and my
faith walk tells and challenges me to accept every human being as a special
creature loved by God. And I see every
creature, great and small, who crosses my path as a gift and blessing.
Reaching across our own
boundaries can only create healthier communities and break down the walls that
divide too many of us.
A very happy All Saints Day
to all of you saints reading this!
No comments:
Post a Comment